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SAYING NO; WHY, WHEN, HOW?

saying no when necessary makes you strong

saying no when necessary makes you strong

The Challenge

  • You want to say No to a request but you find it difficult to do due to certain circumstances.
  • You are being pressured to do what is against your personal principles by a person you hold in high esteem – perhaps a respectable family member – or a person of authority – perhaps a boss at work; You want to say No, but you may be in big trouble or perhaps hurt their feeling. These are both cases you would rather avoid.
  • You have a problem of accepting every request to help people out and find it difficult to say No even when you may not be able to handle all of them

Scenario 1: Your boss or customer pressures you to falsify information about a business transaction, how would you say No without sounding self righteous or disrespectful?

Scenario 2: A family member is requesting for your aid to run an errand but you already promised to help out a friend at same time, you know it would be really had but you agree anyway not knowing how to make it happen, will you just do not want to hurt them. What could you have done better?

This article is meant only to provide guidelines on the issue but not dictate what you should do in each case. Continue reading

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Does My Life Have a Purpose?

A man Walking near the beach at sunnet

Walking near the beach at sunnet

Do you ever wonder; why are we here?‘What is the purpose of life?’ well you are not alone. Millions of people have continually asked the same question. Does the answer exist? Where can we find it? Science? Or The Bible? Consider;

Why ask the question?

Humans are not like unreasoning animals. We have a capacity to learn from the past, to plan for the future, and to look for a purpose in our life. Continue reading

THE SIMPLISTS’ LOVE OF NATURE

Nature can be quit persistent weather you love them or not they find their way to you. Seasons come and irrespective of how you feel about them they affect you. Different animals roam around you an even when you dislike them, they keep coming.

The simplest seek to be happy, and the finds joy in the world around him. But you might say ‘but I don’t already love nature or at least I don’t love all of them. Well, the secret is, knowing more about the life and habit of these aspects of nature. Continue reading

Welcome To The Simplist blog

You probably have wondered were you can get helpful advice about life, living a simple life, improving our personal relationship with others and loving the marvelous world around us(nature-what we can learn from them). THE SIMPLIST is dedicated to offering you articles that serve the purpose of bringing you happiness- the purpose of mans existence and struggles on earth. let us take a walk though the happy life of even simple men